Secrets Revealed about Human Body language ( psychology )

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first let me explain you  What is Body Language?


Body language is the unspoken mode of communication that we do
in every single aspect of our interaction with another person. It is like a mirror that tells
us what the other person thinks and feels in response to our words or actions. Body
language involves gestures, mannerisms, and other body signs.
Would you believe that in real life situations, 70% to 90% of the messages that
we convey to other people are transmitted through body language and the actual verbal
communication accounts for only 7% to 10% ?


Our ability to use body language in a positive way and to read other people's

minds through their body language separates the men from the boys (or women from
girls), and can be a powerful tool to our overall personality development. Imagine
creating a great impression for work, business, and love by being knowledgeable in this
not-so-common yet powerful field of study. It is the unspoken tool to a successful life.


So read on and find out how you can read and utilize body language - the most

used yet most misunderstood secret language in the world....

Reading the Signs

Could you even imagine the awesome power of applying it? With it, you'll be

able to interpret other people's inner emotions even if they're not directly expressing it.
You'll also be able to modify your behavior to fit the situation. You'll get them to like and
trust you. What words cannot do, body language can.




It is important to know if people are interested in what you are saying; otherwise,
you are just wasting your time.





• They maintain eye contact more than 60% of the time. The more wideopened
the eyes are, the more interested the person is. In fact, a person
maintains eye contact more when listening than when talking.


• Their heads are inclined forward.


• They are nodding their heads. Such action means that they're agreeing with
you. That means they're attentive and listening.


• Their feet are pointing towards you.


• They smile frequently. But take note, not all smiles convey the same feeling.
An oblong smile is not genuine. It is used to show courtesy, but not
necessarily happiness or friendliness. The lips are withheld completely back
from the upper and lower teeth, forming the oblong shape. This is usually the
smile that many people exhibit when they feign to enjoy a lame joke.

Indications That They're More Open to Agree with You

• Their hands are flat on the table.

• Their palms are open.

• If they're stroking their chin, they're thinking. They may agree with you after

careful evaluation.

• Their heads are inclined forward.

• They are nodding their heads.

• Their legs are spaced out from each other.

• They smile frequently.

• They unbutton their jackets. This indicates friendliness and willingness to

collaborate with you.

• Their hands are open. This also indicates genuineness.

• They place their hands in their chest. This signifies openness and conveys

sincerity, honesty, or dedication. However, a woman putting her hands in her

breast is a defensive position and may indicate that she is surprised or

astonished.

Indications That They are Thinking

People think all the time. But different individuals make different body

movements based on the type and intensity of their thinking. Some of their actions are

written below:

• They’re stroking their chin. This means they are assessing the advantages

and disadvantages of the proposal/idea being presented.

• They take their glasses off, after which they may either (1) clean them, or (2)

put the tip of the frame in their mouth. They are buying themselves some time

to think things over. A frame in the mouth would also likely indicate that they

need more details and they are willing to listen.

• They are pinching the bridge of the nose most likely with eyes closed. People

doing this are engaged in very deep thought. They may be involved in a

difficult situation, where they are aware of the consequences that may occur

• They put a palm below the chin, index finger pointed and extended along the

cheek, while other fingers placed beneath the mouth. This gesture more likely

indicates thoughts that are criticizing or antagonizing other people.

• They walk with the head down and hands behind the back. People who walk

this way are probably worried about their problems, and they are thinking of

ways to solve them.

Indications That They Are Frustrated

• They are scratching/rubbing the hair or the back of the neck.

• You often hear the word “Tsk.”

• They kick the dust or air.

Indications That They Are Action-Oriented

• They walk at a fast rate while swinging their arms loosely.

• They put their hands on their hips, usually with legs apart.

• They walk with hands on their hips. This may indicate a spurt of vitality at the

moment, but may be followed by sluggishness.

Indications That They Are Defensive/Hiding Something

• They walk with their hands in their pockets.

• They cross their arms.

• They hide their hands any way they can.

Indications Of Boredom

• Head supported by the palm, often accompanied by drooping eyes.

• They show inattentiveness by staring at a blank space (eyes not blinking) or

by looking around frequently.

• They are pulling their ears. This may also signify that they want to interrupt

while another person is talking.

• They are clicking a pen non-stop.

• They are tapping their hands or feet.

• They yawn incessantly.

• Their feet or other body parts are pointing to the exit, as if they are very eager

to leave.

• They move restlessly in their seats. This could also mean that they are not

cozy or at ease, or they might just be exhausted.

• They cross their legs and constantly kick their foot in a very slight motion

(particularly done by females).

Signals Conveying Excitement or Interest

• They rub their palms against each other.

• They clap their hands.

• Their heads are tilted forward.

• Their cross their fingers (usually comes with the hope that something big or

special will happen).

Signals Exhibiting Confidence/Authority/Power

• They maintain firm eye contact and rarely looks on other body parts

underneath the nose.

• They speak with a low-pitched, slow-paced, downward-inflected voice.

• Chin tilted upwards.

• Chest projected outwards.

• They maintain an erect posture, whether standing or sitting.

• They sit in reverse, with the back of the chair serving as their support or

shield. People who sit in this position are known to be bossy and aggressive.

• Their hands are clenched behind the back.

• Their hands are placed beside the hips.

• Their feet are on top of the table.

• They have a firm handshake, palms pointing downwards.

• They lean back with both hands supporting the head.

• They move with precision and with no hesitation.

• They walk solidly with forceful arm swings.

• They join the fingertips of both hands together (small finger of both hands joined together, ring finger of both hands joined together, and so on). Palms

of both hands are not in contact with each other. The higher the hands are

elevated, the more confident they are.

• They extend one leg over the arm of a chair they’re sitting in. When they do

this, it may also mean that they are apathetic, disinterested, or unconcerned.

They may be exhibiting the “I don’t care” attitude.

Signals Of Anger/Resistance

• Their fists are clenched.

• Their hands or feet are tapping.

• One hand is clutching the other hand, arm, or elbow.

• Their arms are crossed over the chest.

• Their eyes are blinking constantly.

• Collar pulled away from the neck, like letting some air in during a hot day in

the summer.

• They kick the dust or air.

• Their arms are vertically placed on the table while the hands are gripping the

edge. Beware when they do this because it might mean something like “You

better get this done or else!” or “Better listen or you’ll regret this!”

Signals Of Nervousness/Tension

Nervousness can be a turn-off. If you’re going to be interviewed in a television

show (hey, who knows?), you should be aware of your body movements. Signals

conveyed by nervous people include:

• Their fists are clenched.

• Their hands or feet are tapping.

• The bottom edges between the fingers of one hand are clenched with the

bottom edges between the fingers of the other hand. This is the position of

the hands when praying.

• Hands are interlocked (flesh between thumb and index finger of one hand

joined with flesh between thumb and index finger of another hand) and

pressing each other.

• They speak in a high-pitched, fast-paced, stuttering voice.

• They whistle to conceal and fight their nervousness.

• They are often clearing their throat.

• One hand is clutching the other hand, wrist, arm, or elbow.

• Their arms are at the back, where one hand is pressing the wrist or arm.

• Their arms are crossed, but they are gripping their biceps.

• Their legs are crossed while standing.

• They have a wilted handshake, palms pointing upwards.

• Their eyes evade you.

• Their ankles are locked or glued to each other. When accompanied by

clenched fists, this may indicate that they are holding back strong emotions or

feelings.

• They don’t smoke. What?!? You thought people smoke because they’re

nervous. But it is in fact the opposite. People who smoke only do so when

they are not tensed in any way.

Signals Made When They Are Doubting/Suspecting You

• They glimpse sideways from the corner of one eye.

• They are rubbing or touching their eyes or ears.

• Their hands are tucked in their pockets.

• Their arms are crossed over the chest.

• Their glasses are dropped to the lower bridge of the nose, with eyes peering

over them. This movement may indicate that you are being examined closely

(to the point that you get conscious).

Signals Made When They Need Reassurance

Some people have this disorder where they feel that they are always making the

wrong decisions. “Should I really buy this? Maybe I should wait for a sale.” “Can I really

get a better job after I resign from this company?” These people do certain actions to

reassure themselves that they have made the right choice, that everything will be ok.

• They stick a pen in their mouth.

• They squeeze the chunky part of their hand.

• They rub the back of the chair (while sitting).

• They clamp their hands with thumbs touching against one another.

• They bite their nails (in some cases).

• They touch their throat (for women).

• They jiggle the coins in their pockets. (for those who are concerned about

their riches).

Here’s what certain types of people would do when they want to reassure others:

• A woman gives reassurance to another female by holding both of her hands

and sometimes hugging her. The facial appearance of the consoling female

matches the solemn mood of the other female.

• A politician who would like to reassure you that he will be doing a good job

when elected in public office would shake your hand with his right hand and

cup it with his left hand.

Indications of Pride

People often show how proud they are of their material possession (for example,

a car) by leaning against it or by touching it. You can see the sparkle in their eyes and

you can sense the thrill in their voice.

How To Know When They Are Lying

People lie for a variety of reasons. It may be to cover up a fault or

embarrassment, to avoid upsetting other people, to encourage when no hope can be

perceived, or to be spared from petty hassles. It may also be due to more serious

psychological problems such as delusional imaging or extreme vanity.

Here are some indications that are conveyed by people when lying:

• They speak in a high-pitched, fast-paced, stuttering voice.

• They are constantly swallowing and clearing their throat.

• They try their best to avoid having eye contact. This applies particularly to

people who want to avoid discussing a certain topic.

• They look somewhere else and glimpse from the corner of their eye.

• They stick their tongue out to moist their lips.

• They are blinking rapidly.

• They rub their throat.

• Their arms are crossed over the chest.

• They are constantly touching parts of their face, especially the mouth, ear,

and nose as if covering them.

• They scratch their head or the back of the neck.

• Their poses are closed, descending, and insecure.

• Their hands or feet are tapping.

• They always look down with shrugged shoulders.

• They are constantly moving from one place to another or changing their

poses.

• They are projecting parts of their body (feet) to an escape route (door).

Don't Jump to Conclusions

Every person has a unique body language. Although silence usually denotes that

an individual is reserved and relaxed, some people keep their anger within themselves

and stay quiet. (This is very unhealthy because rage kept up inside can explode

furiously anytime, causing serious casualties). A wide open mouth may indicate shock

or astonishment for one person, while another person who performs this gesture could

just be concentrating intently on a task he’s doing. Constantly touching the mouth may

indicate lying, although the real reason might just be that the mouth is itching. ☺

One way to overcome this dilemma is to watch out for other signals that jive with

the body language being exhibited. For example, you can confirm if a person is really

nervous if he exhibits many of the qualities of nervousness described above. Judgment

based on one or two gestures only may not be accurate enough, although they can be

dependable. Be aware of the body language, but also combine your observations with

the spoken words to get more hints regarding the inner feelings of another. Use this

power to your advantage.

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